So Much Sunshine
1 hour ago
Training my dream horse and other Equine Musings
"Show me your horse and I will tell you who you are."



Louie is a new addition out at Templeton Equestrian Center. He is an 8 week old Boston Terrier now owned by my trainer, Michelle Merkin. She got him on Sunday night and brought him to the barn Monday morning and boy did he cry! The interesting point to all this is the reaction of the mares at the barn. They were beside themselves. Maddy just kept looking in the direction of the cries and got all flustered. I didn't get a lot accomplished because she was so worked up. I just thought maybe their maternal instincts kicked in. Either that, or they were just scared at the sound. I don't know which. Has anyone else had a similar experience with "crying babies" and horses?
I have posted before about my dad and being that it is Fathers Day, he is on my mind today. I was his shadow as a little girl. I was a daddy's girl, I can admit it. We both loved our horses and there was no place I would rather be than out in the barn with the horses and my dad. As I grew, he spent less time with us, and more time at the track. My parents relationship suffered, and my mom wanted to do things outside of "horses." He just had no desire to see movies or work around the house or admit he was a middle-aged man with a family. He started having an affair with an exercise rider and things spiraled down from there. My mom found out and he broke things off, but a year later he was back again with another track girl. My mom was devastated when she found out and they soon divorced. My dad wouldn't help me with college, because he was paying $700 a month for this girls apartment. He bought my car from me since trade in was so low and then never paid me. He would claim me on his taxes so I couldn't claim myself. He offered to sell my moms horse, then called to tell her he found it dead in the pasture. We rushed up to say goodbye to Rev, and he told us the rendering truck had already picked him up. To this day, we know he sold him and pocketed the money. I didn't talk to him for 2 years. I started edging back over time, but I always keep him at a distance. My peace has come with accepting him for who he is and choosing to love him anyway. He is a womanizer. He is charming, and people love him and trust him. When he screws them over, somehow they feel bad and make excuses for him. I have done the same thing. I have found a way to forgive him and have a relationship, without having any trust. I see how great his is with Briannah, and I wish he could have been that attentive and caring to me when I was her age. For all the things he has pulled, I love him I choose to remember that dad that I used to follow from stall to stall.
My mom is great at picking winners at the race track. This is a picture of one of my dear friends from Minnesota, Heather and my mom. By their big smiles, you know they picked the winners. I am not a big gambler, but I do enjoy doing a $1 exacta box on most races. An exacta is picking the first and second place horse and if you box it, it can come in in either order. So a dollar exacta box would cost you $2. My friend Heather grew up doing hunter/jumper and dressage. I met her back in high school and we have re-connected recently 
I went to Canterbury Park and the first horse I got to see race was "Ground Candy," a three year old owned by my uncle, Jim Murray. That is my uncle, with the big smile, leading him out for his race. Jim has been breeding and raising Thoroughbreds and Quarter Horses in Cedar, Minnesota for as long as I can remember. His race prospects come to my dad for training and they race at various tracks around the Midwest. Jim is a soft-spoken guy with a big laugh. He is an animal lover and anytime we stopped in for a visit, he was always carrying his toy poodle, "Muffin" or a barn cat was rubbing against his legs, hoping for a scratch.
There is always interesting stories on the backstretch of any racetrack. I tell people it is like a carnival lifestyle. People in the business go from track to track and most consider their track friends, their family. This is the case for an twelve year old girl at Canterbury Park named Briannah. She met my dad a couple of 
She is a good kid, a smart kid and I have lots of hope for her future. The next couple years will be tough for her. She has a difficult family situation, and I hope her love of horses pulls her through.